The US presidential race hadn’t even been called for Joe Biden when the first predictable calls began to come to consider the feelings of the tin-pot junta of grifters and carnival-barkers that was in the process of being ousted.
Rick Santorum was on CNN, whingeing that this was a difficult time for Republicans, for Trump and for his family, and that the victors should show compassion for them.
The race may be over, but the gaslighting of the American people – and by extension, the rest of the world – goes on.
The same supporters who four years ago were wearing “Trump 2016 – Fuck Your Feelings” t-shirts as they celebrated his win were now demanding that their hot, salty tantrum tears be dabbed away.
What happens next is on Trump, his regime and his supporters. They cannot and should not be automatically forgiven – first, they must repent.
This is not the darkest period in American history; from the fact that a Civil War was needed to end slavery to the drone strikes on weddings in Asian mountains that were used as a sign of strength, there are many grubby, heinous episodes. Many of them happened while Joe Biden was vice-president.
But it has been four years of darkness, of open, vitriolic racism, of homophobia and transphobia, of lionising the absolute worst America has to offer while denigrating the best of it.
That is not on Biden, or his supporters.
That is on Trump, and his.
This election gave us many simple truths, but the underlying story is more complex, and not one many want to hear a day after Biden’s victory.
In truth, over seventy million people looked at the last four years, the persecution of minorities, the open murder of Black citizens by law enforcement, the shattered reputation of the world’s only superpower, the human dumpster fire that is Trump and his “politics” and thought – “Yes, I’ll vote for more of that.”
The final analysis is not yet complete, but many of those voters were white, middle-class Americans seeking to protect and preserve the privilege they have enjoyed for hundreds of years.
The fact that the race was close – Biden stuck on 253 electoral college votes for hours on end, despite having over four million more ballots in the popular vote – is a relic of the last time the victors sought to appease the vanquished.
The electoral college supposedly exists to ensure that the coastal “elites” (a word that has lost all meaning in American politics) from lording it over the good ordinary folks of the inland states, is a racist relic that allows the minority to punch above its weight every four years.
It doesn’t stop at the presidency. Each state, no matter how small, has two senators, which means Wyoming’s 600,000 people have the same number of lawmakers in the senate as California’s 40 million.
Still, it doesn’t stop. Districts are carved up and gerrymandered and systemic voter suppression is employed to ensure that the playing field is not just levelled, but rendered almost unplayable.
In 2016 the election data showed that, if only Black women voted, Hilary Clinton would have won all fifty states. A situation where Black women, and only Black women, could vote is of course unthinkable – until you remember that their forefathers found themselves in the exact opposite situation, where only white men could vote, not two centuries ago.
The Black American woman of today is still dealing with the racist legacy of that time; her vote is not valued, arguably not even by the Democrats who rode a wave of Black female empowerment back to the White House – and if push came to shove, over 70 million Americans would probably take it from her.
This is who we are asking to forgive and forget. But no Black American and no citizen of the world is under any compulsion to forgive anyone who has wronged them.
The process of healing does not start with a blanket pardon from its victims for the racism and fascist enablement of the last four years; it starts with the repentance of those who carried it out.
It is up to Republicans – politicians, political operatives and voters – to say “we got it wrong, and we’re sorry. We will never let this happen again.”
It is up to them to own their racism, their white supremacy, and the gullibility that allowed others to manipulate and exploit their unfounded fears for generations to the extent that America was almost lost to democracy completely.
The words of Biden and Harris in Delaware were a welcome salve on American wounds, but the onus is not on them to extend the hand of compromise. We know we are living in special times when the triumph of basic human decency and manners is somehow seen as a political revolution.
Trump is, as we have always known, a busted flush – a failed businessman, a failed president, and a total failure of the human spirit.
He will never repent, but America can.
Whether it will or not is up to those who so often claim to value the taking of “personal responsibility”, but who so often have no interest in doing so.